Bridal Party 101 | Wedding Day Wardrobe

Bridesmaids

Always a Bridesmaid? Always best dressed! Let’s all take a moment to thank the Gods of wedding fashion for finally cutting the poor bridesmaids some slack!

Gone are the terrifying patterns, unnecessary frills, and–honestly–UGLY bridesmaids’ dresses that condemned sisters, friends, and cousins to entire days trapped in sympathetic awkwardness.

These days, Brides have changed their tune and don’t seem to be purposely trying to torment their Bridesmaids...in most cases.

(To each their own.)

The dresses tend to be slimmer, more romantic in style, and flowy. They’re cut for a much more flattering fit, subtly textured or patterned, even personally chosen by the Bridesmaids according to a loose set of guidelines set by the Bride. There’s a much more flexible understanding that not all bodies fit the same dress, which allows for so much more fun in the wedding ensemble planning!

Brittany + Chris | Madeline Barr Photography

Dress length has strayed away from the shorter cocktail style, opting for floor-length skirts that add a higher level of sophistication and can be tailored to be shorter later if desired. A big trend that came about a few years ago and has stuck around was the varying shades or textures of a single color. This creates a cohesive look instead of a copy-paste mentality and adds depth to photos, transforming a wall of fabric into defined individual people.

Devon + Collin | Laurie Ashley Photography

The new rule of thumb seems to be: if it looks good with the bouquet, it goes! In some cases, the Bride can choose to have her Bridesmaids in several different colors or varying dress styles that still fit within her idea for the event. This allows the group to personalize their dress and choose which shade and cut compliment them better.

Brittney + Alfred | Fleeting Fox Photography

There are so many colors, cuts, textures that can all be combined to fit a Bride’s vision for her big day! Ideally, everyone understands that what the Bride wants should be all that matters. This is why we will always appreciate the Brides who factor in their Bridesmaids’ feelings to their final decisions.

Groomsmen

We have to be honest; groomsmen get the easy part of this whole wardrobe process. A classic suit is hard to beat, and when a group of sharp suits gets together, there’s timeless magic that arises.

Whether the suits are a traditional black, shades of gray, handsome blues–or even the newest craze in shades of green, the variation of suit style over the years has been minimal. The old saying rings true here. If it ain’t broke, why fix it?

Ginny + Michael | Singler Photography

Groomswomen and Bridesmen

Recently, we’ve seen more Bridal parties incorporate Bridesmen and Groomswomen in the mix. We’re all for it, and these party members offer a whole new range of wedding ensemble possibilities to consider! We’ve seen suits in the same shade as the bridesmaids’ dresses, dresses that match the groomsmen, tailored women’s suits to match the groomsmen, and options in between.

Abby + Jimmie | Chris Ellis Photography

If you’re lucky enough to be in this position, feel free to play around with the possibilities and see what overall look the happy couple is aiming for. It’s still a somewhat undefined area, so dare to write the rules!

Brittney + Alfred | Fleeting Fox Photography

 

Bridal Party 101 | The Grand Entrance

Once your wedding ceremony is over, it’s party time! Kick off your reception with the perfect party-ready wedding entrance and song. Our Event Coordination team will direct you and your bridal party; all you have to do is decide what style of Grand Entrance you want.

Grand Entrance Order

Like everything else at your wedding, which gets announced first at your reception is simply up to you. Generally, the wedding party is absent for a while after the ceremony. They’re all with the photographer while the guests are at the reception, eating hors ‘devours.

As the wedding party re-emerges, you can have your professional DJ announce special pairs, the groomsmen, bridesmaids, and/or the wedding couple. The order is usually very similar to the recessional, meaning whoever paired up to follow the Bride and Groom back down the aisle after the vows can be introduced together again. Typically the second-to-last people introduced are the Best Man and Maid of Honor. In the grand finale, everyone stands, and the happy couple is announced.

Sometimes couples keep it simple and only announce themselves, leaving the bridal party extra time to socialize during cocktail hour. Other times, they choose to introduce all the bridesmaids and groomsmen together. It’s all entirely your choice as a couple.

Processional VS Entrance Songs

Maddie + Matt | Vee Taylor Photography

Wedding entrance songs are not the same as processional songs. Processional songs play during the wedding ceremony. Entrance songs happen when the wedding party is announced at the wedding reception, usually at the end of cocktail hour. Nothing is off-limits during the grand entrance, so be sure to choose a song that sets the tone for the evening.

Song Choice

Does the entrance song have to be boring? Absolutely Not.

The time for the traditional “Wedding March” is over. This is your party, so jazz it up however you’d like. Lighten the mood with something humorous or play a country wedding entrance song that both you and your spouse love. You can make it as upbeat or as traditional as you like.

Generally, the wedding party’s best entrance song has a good beat and lyrics that people will recognize. Try to stay away from songs that distract from the love message or talk about cheating. (It seems like an obvious rule, but you’d be surprised what comes up.)

How Many Songs Do I Need?

Ariana + Trevor | Davin Lindwall Photography

The short answer is as many as you like. But, generally, one song is long enough for up to 9 introductions. That could be the parents, grandparents, one to five sets of the wedding party, the best man and maid of honor, and the newlyweds.

(Get ready to do a little math.)

The average song is 3 minutes long. It can take 20 seconds for a couple to prepare and get from the entrance to their seats or the dance floor. As you increase the number of introductions, add on another song. A 3-minute song at 20 seconds per introduction roughly equals 9 introductions per song depending on how wild each one turns out.

 

Here’s an incredible playlist on Spotify, literally called Grand Entrance Songs for a Wedding (2020), with over 50 popular songs to choose from!

Tribute To Love! | Valentine’s Day

“Shall I compare thee to a summer’s day?”

“Thou art more lovely and more temperate.”

Ginny + Michael | Singler Photography

“Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,”

Lisa Marie + Dan | Marisa McBride Photography

“And summer’s lease hath all too short a date.”

“Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines,”

Abby + Jimmie | Chris Ellis Photography

“And often is his gold complexion dimmed;”

Ariana + Trevor | Davin Lindwall Photography

“And every fair from fair sometime declines,”

Brittany + Chris | Madeline Barr Photography

“By chance, or nature’s changing course, untrimmed;”

“But thy eternal summer shall not fade,”

Maddie + Matt | Vee Taylor Photography

“Nor lose possession of that fair thou ow’st,”

Nichole + Josh | Jaicee Morgan Photography

“Nor shall death brag thou wand’rest in his shade,”

Crystal + Jared | Krissel Rivas Photography

“When in eternal lines to Time thou grow’st.”

Jessie + Dillon | Gipe Photography

“So long as men can breathe, or eyes can see,”

“So long lives this, and this gives life to thee.”

William Shakespeare, (Sonnet 18) 1564 – 1616

 

To all of our fantastic couples, pictured here and not: We wish that your every day is Valentine’s Day, that your love be eternal, and that life itself breathes with the same feelings you shared with us on your wedding day. We love that you loved with us.

All the best from your always Valentine,

Leo Carrillo Ranch

Managed and Catered by Personal Touch Dining

Bridal Party 101 | History

It Takes A Community To Have A Wedding.

The Bridal Party is the Bride and Groom’s entourage chosen specifically because of their proven support of the happy couple. According to history, their duties have included anything from kidnapping to providing the bride with a dowry if the parents were disproving of the marriage. Here’s a couple of fun historical facts behind the wedding Wedding Posse– oops! Party**

Photo: True Photography

“Bridesmaids and groomsmen had to dress just like the bride and groom to confuse vengeful spirit presences (or real-life jealous suitors) who might try to harm the newlyweds.”

 

This tradition seems to have changed only recently! Nowadays, there is usually subtle differentiation between the Groom and his Groomsmen, but the Bridesmaids leave the white to the Bride. We’re seeing a larger variety in color, style, and texture in bridesmaids’ dresses as each wedding season passes. It just depends on the Bride’s preference!

Photo: Shelly Anderson

“In a time in which ‘marriage by capture’ was practiced, close friends of the groom would assist him in taking the bride from her family. They’d form a small army to fight off angry relatives so that he could escape with her.”

 

Thankfully this doesn’t happen anymore! Imagine women being kidnapped left and right out from under their family’s nose! (Talk about awkward table conversation at Thanksgiving…)

We understand why the need for the most important people by your side remains. Choosing the ones to support you, be that shoulder to cry on when you need it, can share in good times with you, are all top factors to your bridal party.  At the Ranch, we’ve witnessed it all.

Photo: Maryanne McGuire Photography

“Ancient Roman law required 10 witnesses to be present at a wedding, which is considered a precursor to the bridal party tradition.”

Today, Bridal Parties can be as small as two people and as large as 30–as long as the MOH and Best Man have some good organizational skills! We say the more, the merrier, it adds a little energy to the event as a whole, and you know the dance floor will never be empty.

Photo by Audrey Rynberg Photography

“The tradition of the ‘best man’ is thought to have originated with the Germanic Goths of the 16th century.”

“He was the ‘best man’ for, specifically, the job of stealing the bride from her neighboring community or disapproving family, and he was probably the best swordsman, too.”

 

Consider this, gentlemen: is your Best Man willing to fight to the death for your love?

Photo by True Photography

“In some early traditions, the groomsmen were called Bride’s Knights because they helped protect her—and her dowry, and her virginity—or because they assisted in her kidnapping.”

Photo by Muse Moments Photography

Kidnapping seems to have been pretty prevalent back in the day, but it’s not just the Groomsmen who are known to get into some mischief during the Bachelor/Bachelorette parties anymore. (Hollywood made a few movies about all that.) Although we would never promote kidnapping, we’re sure some good clean inner-party fun is still had.

Photo by True Photography

Thanks to all these fun Bridal Parties and the awesome photographers who captured them at their best!

We love seeing what each unique group is like and how the clients we’ve gotten to know so well fit into the crazy mix.

Photo by Jordan Galindo

As always, big thanks go out to the staff at Personal Touch Dining, who Coordinate, Manage, and cater to all these wonderful events!

To learn more about weddings traditions and their origins, check out these two articles:

’21 Surprising Historical Duties of the Wedding Party’ by Jen Doll

A History of Anglo-Saxon Wedding Customs‘ by Arden Ranger

 

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